when ignorance takes over ppls lives.

Ive never been one to be a part of the big girl movement like Monique but ive also never been one to down talk them neither. It wasnt until yesterday i felt the need to talk upon this; someone ive known to be a pretty well associate to me told me if they payed for me a membership to the gym would i use it because i need to lose weight. As rude as this was and as quick as i usually am to come back with with a great line; i was appauled. All my life i ve never thought i was big; of course i was bigger than my other friends but i always felt like i was just the thick one of the group. I dont care to be the size 1 or 3 like the super models, i could care less about being the "perfect size" because what the hell is a perfect size anyway. I cant even recall a time i could fit into a size small shirt. But im still one of the most fashionable ppl i know. I dont shop at lane bryant i shop at forever 21 just like the rest of you skinny bitches but because i have big hips, huge thighs, and a tush IM FAT? I have now come to the conclusion that people are just ignorant and they dont know any better so screw them. Im in love with my weight ive never complained about it; not once , i dont run down the street and collapse, i dont have high blood pressure or anything of that sort, im pretty darn healthy. So screw the media and their statistics, screw that associate of mine too real friends dont say shit like that! Im fine the way i am SO KISS MY ASS:) you wont catch me bent over any toilets and i dont encourage anyone else to either! You have to have confidence in yourself;if you dont no one will; because in this culture no one is rooting for you!